What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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8- What are your thoughts on politics?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
I’m 17 and looking for a girl. What do I do?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
As a woman, what would be you response to a male friend’s offer of a full body massage?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
If you win, what will you make them do?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Have you ever gone to a porn theater with your wife?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
What blowjob techniques do you use for your man to cum inside your mouth?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Any that are a turn off?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
As a guy, how do you know you if you are considered attractive?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Have you ever accidentally found out that you were about to be fired?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
In your opinion, who is the most overrated singer/band/artist in modern music history and why?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
52~ What are your hobbies?
Why am I so tired of seeing homeless people all over the place?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Family Relation Age Play
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
How old are you? Male or Female?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Nothing too Serious
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
What is your favorite position? Why?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Would you read them together?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
If yes, what?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Any that are a turn off?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
*** Questions About Me ***
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
39~ What are your love languages?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
The Ice Breaker Questions
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
*** Random Questions ***
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Please share Did you stop?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?